March is full. Full of learning, full of play, full of connection. Whether you are brand new, gently curious, or deeply embedded in your practice, this month offers spaces to explore your desires, refine your skills, and strengthen our collective. Collective Workshops This month’s collectives dive into the psychology behind what we do and why we do it. Psychology of Bratting  explores the dynamic beneath the sass. We unpack power exchange, attention, attachment patterns, and

There is something about prom that lingers. For some of us, it was awkward and ill-fitting. For others, it was a night we survived rather than savoured. For many queer people, it was shaped by who we were allowed to be, what we were allowed to wear, who we were allowed to bring, and how brightly we were permitted to shine. So we are doing it again this year. Not as parody. Not as protest. But as reclamation. This year’s Queer Prom descends into an undersea world of shimmer, s

This workshop offers a guided, supportive space to explore your desires, boundaries, curiosities, and hard limits. Through structured exercises and facilitated discussion, you will learn how to identify what draws you to kink, how to communicate it clearly, and how to navigate evolving interests over time. For newcomers, this is an excellent foundation. It demystifies common dynamics, gives language to feelings you may not yet have words for, and builds confidence before step

At Casa Kink, consent is the foundation of our community and culture. We strive to create a space where everyone feels safe, respected, and able to express themselves authentically. To support this, we uphold clear consent principles and a consistent process for responding to safety concerns and consent violations. Our approach is intentionally simple. This allows us to respond with care, consistency, and integrity, regardless of who is involved, including members of the Casa

Before Eden was imagined as a garden, there was something far older and far more real. Before myth and morality, before rules about bodies and desire, there was the Cradle of Humankind, here in Africa, here in what is now South Africa. Caves, stone, heat, rhythm. Places where early humans gathered not as couples or individuals, but as communities learning how to survive, connect, and be together. Before Eden  is inspired by this beginning.Not as a reenactment, and not as fant

At Casa Kink, all our events are 18+. This is a deliberate choice, not a casual one, and not one we take lightly. From time to time we’re asked why we don’t raise our age limit to 21 or even 25, especially given the nature of the spaces we hold. The short answer is this: excluding young adults does not keep them safer . In many cases, it does the opposite. 18 Is the Legal Age of Adulthood In South Africa, 18 is the legal threshold at which a person is recognised as an adult.

February at Casa Kink is shaping up to be one of those months that reminds us why this space exists in the first place: connection, curiosity, play, learning, and community. All held with care, consent, and just the right amount of mischief. Whether you’re craving deep conversations, embodied learning, playful silliness, decadent nights, or a cosy afternoon with cake and creativity, there’s something on the calendar designed to meet you where you are. A Familiar Face, Full T

As Casa Kink continues to grow, we’re taking a moment to revisit and clarify our community values. Casa Kink exists to be a space where people can explore kink, connection, and self-expression with curiosity, care, and consent. As our community evolves, it’s important that our shared agreements evolve too because intentional culture doesn’t happen by accident. We’ve updated our values to more clearly reflect the kind of environment we want to co-create together: one that is w

Sterkfontein Caves - Cradle of Mankind Before walls, before cities, before rules about how bodies should meet, there was land that shaped us. Before there was Eden, there was the Cradle of Humankind, here in Africa, here in what is now South Africa. Caves carved from stone. Ground that held warmth. Places where early humans gathered, rested, and learned each other through proximity, sound, and movement. Africa is not a metaphor here. It is the place where human bodies learned

Prepare to leave 2025 behind and journey through centuries of decadence, desire, and dance at Casa Kink’s Time Traveller’s Ball . This New Year’s Eve, we’re throwing a party like no other, a night where eras collide, fantasies roam free, and every room offers a new adventure for the senses. From swinging 60s love fests to ancient pleasure gardens, from the ritual intensity of medieval and Ottoman chambers to the neon chaos of an 80s disco, your journey through time has never

December and summer are here, and Casa Kink is bringing events full of opportunities for connection, creativity, curiosity, and a whole lot of deliciously kinky fun. Whether you’re craving education, exploration, community, or full-tilt hedonism, this month’s calendar has something for every flavour of kinky creature. Kink Junction  is back this December A vibrant meeting point where education, artistry, kink, and community all intersect. Think of it as Casa Kink’s mini-confe

Remember that electric feeling when you were younger, the countdown to the end of the school year, the restless anticipation, the final minutes crawling by? And then finally , the bell rang. That sharp clang wasn’t just a sound; it was a signal. A permission slip. A promise that for the next stretch of glorious summer days, you were free to run wild, get messy, try new things, and taste the thrill of possibility. For some of us, that moment meant tearing off out the gates, le

As we wind down the year (and wind each other up), November at Casa Kink is packed with workshops, play, and plenty of ways to connect, learn, and explore your delicious curiosities. Whether you’re here to grow your skills, find your people, or just unwind with a cup of tea and a little mischief, we’ve got you covered. Collective Nights Our November Collectives are all about curiosity, creativity, and connection: Behaviourism & Clicker Training  – Learn the art of positive re

This summer, we’re opening the dungeon doors early for something a little different, PlayDays at Casa Kink . Throughout December and early January , we’ll be open a couple of weekdays each week as your holiday escape , your midday playground , and your kinky retreat from the grind . Whether you’re off for the school holidays or stuck at work while everyone else hits the beach, Casa Kink is offering you a place to unwind, connect, and play. Each PlayDay kicks off at 11am  wit

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