October at Casa Kink October is here, and we’ve got a month packed with opportunities to learn, play, connect and spend time together at Casa Kink. We’re kicking things off tonight with Cock Worship, an exploration of the art, dynamics and etiquette of cock worship. If that sounds like your particular flavour of fun, there’s still time to join us! Our regular Dungeon Days continue throughout the month on Wednesdays, giving folks and their play partners a chance to come and ma

Ten years ago, in 2016, Casa Kink was just getting started. There was no Dungeon. No Downstairs. No big venue. No ten-year plan. There was an idea, a lot of enthusiasm, plenty to learn and a group of people who were willing to give it a try and to work hard to support it. And somehow, ten years later, here we are. A few milestones along the way 2016 Casa Kink holds its first event. 2017 We hold our first fundraiser for CEXx, beginning what would become a long relationship

Kink Collective is a regular Thursday evening at Casa Kink that brings together the three things that make Casa what it is: people, learning and exploration. It’s a relaxed night where you can come and meet people, grab a cuppa and a chat, take part in an interesting workshop or discussion, and, if the mood and connections are right, perhaps explore a little play. There’s no single way to do Kink Collective. You can get involved as much or as little as you like. Social First

Curious Collective is for anyone who has ever thought, “What's a Dungeon really like and what is kink really about?” Maybe you’ve been curious for years but never quite known where to start. You may have been to a few events but still feel like you’re figuring things out. Or perhaps you’re simply looking for a friendly way to meet people, ask questions and get a feel for the scene without having to arrive knowing exactly what you’re doing. That’s what Curious Collective is al

September is a pretty big month for us at Casa Kink. Not only is spring finally here, but this month we are celebrating 10 years of Casa parties and 3 years in the Dungeon, which is something I still find hard to believe. Ten years is a long time to be doing anything, let alone running a kink space, and when I look back at where we started and where we are now, there is a lot to celebrate. So, naturally, we've put together a rather busy September. There is a bit of everything

Socialise. Learn. Play. Looking for something different to do with your Thursday night? Casa's Kink Collective could be exactly what you're looking for. You might reasonably be wondering: What the hell is a Kink Collective? Is it a workshop? A munch? A play party? Some sort of kinky book club? Well... sort of. But not really. A Kink Collective is our Thursday night gathering where we bring people together to socialise, learn something interesting and, if the mood takes you

At most of our events we encourage folk to being some snacks to share. This helps to keep energy for play high and often creates a focal point for gathering and socialising. We are frequently asked for suggestions on what folk can bring. At the highest level, focus on snacks that are: Easy to transport Require little or no preparation Not messy on hands Can survive being left out for a few hours Relatively affordable in South Africa Provide energy without being too heavy S

As the Cape Town winter settles in, Casa Kink continues to be anything but quiet. June is packed with workshops, jams, social spaces, creative exploration, and opportunities to learn, connect, and play. Before we dive into the calendar, we'd like to take a moment to celebrate the incredible response to our new Curious Collective initiative. The goal was simple: create a welcoming pathway for newcomers to the community, helping them navigate their first events, ask questions,

Not everyone wants a crowded party, loud music, or a late night out to explore kink, intimacy, or connection. Sometimes you just want time, space, privacy, and the freedom to focus on your partner(s) without rushing. That’s exactly what Dungeon Days are for. Dungeon Days are daytime openings of the Casa Kink venue where guests can make use of the dungeon, private rooms, and play spaces in a much quieter, more relaxed environment than a traditional event night. Think less “pa

Why Casa Kink Uses PRICK as Our Consent Model At Casa Kink, consent isn’t a line in a policy. It is the foundation of everything we do. It shapes how we play, how we connect, how we communicate, and how we take care of each other. It informs the culture of our space, the expectations we hold, and the way we respond when things go wrong. That’s why we use PRICK: Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink. Not because it sounds good on paper, but because it aligns with t

Ascension is a night of rebellion, release, and rediscovery. It is not about trying something new, it is about stepping fully into the kinks and pleasures you already love. Exploring them with intensity, curiosity, and presence. This is a space to reconnect with yourself, your desires, and the energy of a room alive with sensation. At the heart of the night is our hook suspension performance . This is an experience to witness, feel, and carry into your own play. The suspensi

As the days get shorter and the air turns cold, many of us feel the quiet pull toward warmth, softness, and connection. Casa’s Cozy Collective is our answer to that — a gentle, guided space to slow down, soften, and experience human closeness in a way that is intentional, consensual, and entirely non-sexual. If you’ve never attended something like this before, or if it’s your first time at Casa, here’s what you can expect. Arriving at Casa (Especially if it’s your first time)

March is full. Full of learning, full of play, full of connection. Whether you are brand new, gently curious, or deeply embedded in your practice, this month offers spaces to explore your desires, refine your skills, and strengthen our collective. Collective Workshops This month’s collectives dive into the psychology behind what we do and why we do it. Psychology of Bratting explores the dynamic beneath the sass. We unpack power exchange, attention, attachment patterns, and

There is something about prom that lingers. For some of us, it was awkward and ill-fitting. For others, it was a night we survived rather than savoured. For many queer people, it was shaped by who we were allowed to be, what we were allowed to wear, who we were allowed to bring, and how brightly we were permitted to shine. So we are doing it again this year. Not as parody. Not as protest. But as reclamation. This year’s Queer Prom descends into an undersea world of shimmer, s

This workshop offers a guided, supportive space to explore your desires, boundaries, curiosities, and hard limits. Through structured exercises and facilitated discussion, you will learn how to identify what draws you to kink, how to communicate it clearly, and how to navigate evolving interests over time. For newcomers, this is an excellent foundation. It demystifies common dynamics, gives language to feelings you may not yet have words for, and builds confidence before step

At Casa Kink, consent is the foundation of our community and culture. We strive to create a space where everyone feels safe, respected, and able to express themselves authentically. To support this, we uphold clear consent principles and a consistent process for responding to safety concerns and consent violations. Our approach is intentionally simple. This allows us to respond with care, consistency, and integrity, regardless of who is involved, including members of the Casa

Before Eden was imagined as a garden, there was something far older and far more real. Before myth and morality, before rules about bodies and desire, there was the Cradle of Humankind, here in Africa, here in what is now South Africa. Caves, stone, heat, rhythm. Places where early humans gathered not as couples or individuals, but as communities learning how to survive, connect, and be together. Before Eden is inspired by this beginning.Not as a reenactment, and not as fant

At Casa Kink, all our events are 18+. This is a deliberate choice, not a casual one, and not one we take lightly. From time to time we’re asked why we don’t raise our age limit to 21 or even 25, especially given the nature of the spaces we hold. The short answer is this: excluding young adults does not keep them safer . In many cases, it does the opposite. 18 Is the Legal Age of Adulthood In South Africa, 18 is the legal threshold at which a person is recognised as an adult.

February at Casa Kink is shaping up to be one of those months that reminds us why this space exists in the first place: connection, curiosity, play, learning, and community. All held with care, consent, and just the right amount of mischief. Whether you’re craving deep conversations, embodied learning, playful silliness, decadent nights, or a cosy afternoon with cake and creativity, there’s something on the calendar designed to meet you where you are. A Familiar Face, Full T

As Casa Kink continues to grow, we’re taking a moment to revisit and clarify our community values. Casa Kink exists to be a space where people can explore kink, connection, and self-expression with curiosity, care, and consent. As our community evolves, it’s important that our shared agreements evolve too because intentional culture doesn’t happen by accident. We’ve updated our values to more clearly reflect the kind of environment we want to co-create together: one that is w