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Nita 2022

Sexuality Coaching & Counselling

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Coaching is about asking questions and offering a range of skills that will empower you to find the answers within yourself.

I provide a safe and empowering space for you to identify the ways in which you want to relate to yourself  and the world around you, and then help you to create goals that are positive, future focused and inspiring.  We will work together to make these goals achievable to help you transition from where you find yourself today and to be who you aspire to be tomorrow.

Typical work I do includes (but is not limited to):

  • Working through the opening of a relationship, including for swinging

  • Support folk in polyamorous relationships

  • Guiding through gender or orientation exploration

  • Overcoming sexual shame

  • Relationship coaching and counselling

  • General Life Coaching 

I will provide accountability and constantly challenge your perspectives to step outside of your comfort zone.

My Appraoch

I have over 20 years experience in people, change and project management and I now leverage those skills in a space where I can impact on a more personal level, helping people to find acceptance with who they are and develop confidence in that going forward.

I am a certified life coach, with Level 2 and Couples counselling courses under my belt.  I've been trained to support individuals through situations of Consent Violation and I am constantly building on my skills in order to provide the best for my clients.

I've been married almost 25 years, I'm polyamorous, kinky and have an ongoing journey of discovery with my sexuality.  I've travelled five continents and around 30 countries gaining insight into a variety of cultures and norms.  Enough to know there is no "normal", only what is more common. I run the CEXx (Consensual Educational eXploration of seX) camp at Afrika Burn and have volunteered in the mental health space (the Sanctuary) at the Burn which has provided me with experience handling sexual trauma.  I've hosted over 100 events Kink, BDSM and Poly events and gained invaluable insight into these communities, learning how to hold safe spaces and welcome all people.

In my private time, I'm a ferocious reader, love getting my hands dirty in the community garden, connecting through community work and the outdoors and camping. Music keeps me sane and helps me find words when my head is too noisy to find my own.

I am passionate about sexual and body positivity and about building community and creating villages of support.

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