Impact Jam - Bare Handed Spanking

Impact play is one of the most primal and connective forms of kink, rhythm, breath, anticipation, sensation, trust. Our new Impact Jam series is a space to explore that conversation in community, building skill, awareness, and empathy over time.

This jam series will rotate focus areas, from floggers and paddles to canes and creative implements, offering opportunities to deepen technique, negotiation skills, body awareness, and aftercare practices. Each session will spotlight a particular style while still allowing room for open exploration.

Our first gathering begins at the beginning: Bare Handed Spanking.

There is an intimacy and immediacy to skin-on-skin impact that no toy quite replicates. In this session, we’ll explore the foundations, body positioning, hand placement, pacing, warm-up techniques, reading responses, building intensity safely, and caring for both your own hands and your partner’s body. We’ll also touch on the emotional tone of spanking, playful, grounding, cathartic, ritual, and how…